Tuesday, May 14, 2019
How I Experience Anxiety
It starts in my chest. It's a slight squeeze or pressure feeling, but also kind of tingling or buzzing. Then my brain goes into hyper aware mode and is hyper analyzing, hyper listening. Sometimes, I feel it in my fingers next. Kind of that tingling sensation.
I generally feel both ready to jump out of my skin and ready for my space to implode.
My brain starts to speed up. It focuses on all the things that I need to do. Every single work task and unanswered email. Every report I need to run. Every problem I need to solve. I start to feel paranoid about friendships, relationships, and what people really think of me. I question every wording choice. When I listen to my brain, my chest gets tighter and I feel like I can't really breathe.
Which also means I need to breathe. Deeply. Purposefully.
I also need to move my arms because I tend to clamp my upper arms to my sides when this hits. Because I want to contract everything inward. I also can't keep my foot from shaking or my legging from twitching. I want to contain everything but also have to send some energy out somehow.
In, 2, 3, 4.
Out, 2, 3, 4.
I close my eyes and imagine my breath flowing into my lungs and spilling warm relaxation throughout my body.
I open my eyes and go back to answering an email.
Soon, it hits again. Because something doesn't work. Or an email comes from someone who is upset. Or I make the mistake of looking at social media and get overwhelmed by all the bad things happening in the world, in government, in people's lives.
Overwhelmed. It seems to all boil down to what I can't do on my own. Or what I perceive I can't do all at once, anyway.
So I make a list of the things at work that I need to get done. I prioritize to make sure I'm focusing on the right things.
I stay off social media. Partially so I don't continue to pile on with the overwhelmed feelings but also so I don't say things I don't really mean.
I take 10 minutes to walk outside. Fresh air and sunshine often help.
I breathe and count. I use some mantras or do some yoga poses to focus on just the present moment.
I will either be able to help this anxiety pass or I will need to use medication to prevent it from continuing or getting worse.
Here is what I know does not help - ignoring it, drinking alcohol, distraction. I can't just numb it or mute it. I have to work through it or medicate it. 95% of the time, I am able to work through it.
in... 2... 3... 4...
out... 2... 3... 4....
Until next time,
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