I've deleted the negative comment that was made and the angry post I wrote in response.
No one has said anything negative to me about any of it. But reacting in anger is never a good choice.
I'm not angry with the negative commenter. I feel pity for them.
So the post is gone, that comment is gone. I'm going to enable anonymous comments again because I have non-blogging friends who read and comment and they shouldn't be punished for one person's bad choice.
And if there are more inappropriate, selfish, cruel comments... I'll just delete them.