After a break from the book, I'm ready to get back to it. Sorry for the pause but I needed some distance after those last few entries.
You have to forgive for a marriage to work. And not just forgiveness within your marriage. But letting go of anything from your past that needs forgiving, too. Any hurts from your childhood, for example. You have to let those things go, forgive the people who have hurt you... so that you can be complete in your marriage.
And then you choose to let your anger go against your spouse. Anything you've been holding a grudge over. Anything you've clung to or tucked away... because living a life with hidden and pent up anger just means that it will come back to bite you later on.
Whatever you've been holding on to, whatever grudge you've been carrying... let it go. Choose to forgive.
What did you forgive your spouse for? How long had you been carrying this anger? How do you feel after letting it go?